What is the Friend-zone

* Most girls date boys because of their money. True girls would look beyond it, and date guys because of their personalit Signs she’s a Gold-digger: First thing she asks you: “What kind of car do you drive?” Doesn’t have a steady job. Yet, always has designer things. Always asks you to buy things for her, subtly and/or blatantly. May even boast about how other people buy her things. Constantly talks to you about what she needs to get done. (i.e. nails done, hair done, everything did) Never offers to pay for anything, not lunch, dinner, movie, nor starbucks. Loves the words “I”, “Me”, & “You Never”. Always planning ways to spend your money and has no concern with how you make it nor your intentions on saving it. i.e. “Honey, let’s go to Jamaica with your new bonus!” These are just basic signs, but let’s also keep in mind that gold-diggers may have a steady job and they may even come from a family with money and don’t need a steady job…the issue at ...

Breach of Trust : When one person in a committed relationship goes outside its agreed perimeters to partake in emotional or physical intimacy with someone else, the foundation of the primary relationship is severely damaged. The passive party to the infidelity feels violated, completely confused as to how the person they trusted with their emotional and physical vulnerability could betray them. Shame : The fundamental characteristic of shame is that it’s emotionally and physical painful. It feels like a punch in the stomach. Shame arises when we are given a demeaning label that we can’t eliminate through our actions. So the passive party to the infidelity gets labeled a victim while the active party gets labeled an aggressor and infidel. Guilt : In contrast to shame, which derives from fingers pointing in towards us, guilt is an internal construct that arises when we point fingers at ourselves. It’s our internal and moral code of conduct that causes us to self-regulate our a...

In  popular culture , the  friend zone  is a situation in which one member of a friendship wishes to enter into a romantic or sexual relationship, while the other does not. [1] It is generally considered to be an undesirable situation for the rejected person. [2] The sense of  zone  is one of being stuck in an unwanted and distant relationship. The rejected person is said to have been put "in" the object of their affection's "friend zone", and this can be  verbified , as in the sentence "So, she's friendzoned you." The concept of the friend zone has been criticized as  misogynistic , because of a belief that the concept implies an expectation that women should have sex with men in whom they have no interest, simply because the men were nice to them. [3] [4]  This is closely associated with so-called " nice guy  syndrome".