In popular culture, the friend zone is a situation in which one member of a friendship wishes to enter into a romantic or sexual relationship, while the other does not.[1]It is generally considered to be an undesirable situation for the rejected person.[2]
The sense of zone is one of being stuck in an unwanted and distant relationship. The rejected person is said to have been put "in" the object of their affection's "friend zone", and this can be verbified, as in the sentence "So, she's friendzoned you." The concept of the friend zone has been criticized as misogynistic, because of a belief that the concept implies an expectation that women should have sex with men in whom they have no interest, simply because the men were nice to them.[3][4] This is closely associated with so-called "nice guy syndrome".
Personal Story: I recently thought I was dating a lady who went out of her way to say the word friend almost every-time any other stranger thought the relationship status she immediately renounce any notion of that narrative in their minds never knowing I had to go crossed town just to get money to go out on a date to Olive garden so I ask what she thought and she replace everything I told her with the word friend so I text her early that morning informing her that we need to call it whatever it was a quits
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